Download my Book for FREE on Saturday and Sunday

Sometimes procrastination pays off! If you haven’t downloaded my book yet, you can download the Kindle version for FREE on Saturday and Sunday (the paperback version is also available but not eligible for the promotion). Go grab it and let me know what you think! If you do, please leave a review on Amazon. It helps more than you know!

For those of you who don’t yet know about my book, it is a reflection of how I’ve changed my thinking in such a dramatic way over the past 7 years that I have literally gone from surviving to thriving. It is the foundation for this blog. I was fortunate enough to be able to include writing from two of our fellow bloggers as well:

The Wonderful and Wacky World of One Single Mom

A Creative PTSD Gal

Thriving Not Surviving: Bravely Pursue a Life That Will Blow Your Mind!

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Who is to blame?

Whose fault is it you’re in your current situation? Who got you to where you are right now in life? Is it your mother’s fault? Is it because your parent’s got divorced when you were young? Is it your ex’s fault? Is it because of your boss?

Who is to blame for why you’re unhappy with your life?

It’s your husband’s fault you’re so tired. He gets up early for work and wakes you up every morning. Can’t he just for once put his clothes in the bathroom the night before and shut the door so I can sleep a little longer? Is that really too much to ask? If he would just let me sleep a little later I wouldn’t be so tired and I’d actually do better at work. Maybe I’d even get that promotion I know my boss is going to give to someone else. And if I got some extra sleep I could go to the gym after work! I could finally lose those extra 10 pounds I put on. Well, he’ll just want pasta again for dinner so I probably can’t lose weight. Doesn’t he get I can’t eat pasta all the time? Sure, he can eat whatever he wants but I’m a woman. I’m not so lucky.

On and on your thoughts spiral about how it’s not your fault. It’s his fault you’re tired. It’s his fault you aren’t in line for the promotion. It’s his fault you don’t exercise. It’s his fault you gained weight.

This is your reality.

Truly, there is only one person in this entire world you can control. One person who absolutely must do what you say. And that person is you!

What if, instead of blaming your husband for getting up early, you looked at what you could change?

You know your husband gets up early for work asking him to be quieter in the morning hasn’t worked, so you decide to start going to bed earlier to compensate. He leaves the house an hour before you have to so while he’s getting ready you decide to clean off the treadmill you’ve been using to dry laundry. The first day you simply walk, but by the end of the week you start doing jogging intervals. You feel good about your new routine and when you get to the office you are more productive than you’ve been in a long time. Maybe you will get that promotion after all.

There will always be people who do things that you don’t like. Sometimes you can deal with it by talking to them; other times you may have to change what you’re doing to accommodate the situation. Either way, you are in control of how you respond to the situation. You are accountable.

If you give other people power over your life, then you might as well pack it in right now because they just aren’t going to do what you want them to do. They’re not worried about your happiness, they’re worried about their own. Take control of your own happiness!

Thriving Not Surviving Available NOW for Pre-Order

Bravely Pursue a Life That Will Blow Your Mind!

On a scale of 1 to 10, how happy are you with your life right now exactly the way it is?  If you can’t honestly answer 10 then this book is for you!

You can go from surviving, just getting by day to day to thriving and living a life you never imagined.  This book will show you how!

Using practical insights along with personal stories of struggle and success, this book will:

  • Help you commit to moving your life to the next level, whatever that level is for you.
  • Demonstrate four strategies to change your thinking that will lead you toward success
  • Provide actionable steps to reprogram the thinking that has been holding you back.

From the moment you begin to shift your thinking, you will be able to create new habits that will transform your life into the one of your dreams!  Start NOW!

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